Most men crave for some good, hot oral sex every single day of the year. Unfortunately most of them are not getting it, part of it is their fault – part of it is yours. 80-90% of women out there are not that good when it comes to giving oral – there’s no one out there to teach them what really works. I’ll give you five simple, yet effective tips to improve your skills. Spicing it up #1 Smile. There’s nothing more effective than a nice smile while giving your boyfriend or husband oral. It’s important that you can convey how much you’re enjoying giving him head. When you enjoy it, he’ll enjoy it a lot more himself – there’s no better way to convey your attitude than with a nice, maybe even naughty smile. Spicing it up #2 Apply more pressure to his shaft while stroking it. Most women are too soft. I’m not saying you should rip it in half, just try to be slightly more aggressive while giving him oral than regularly and you’ll see some instant results. Spicing it up #3 Play games from time to time. It’s interesting to motivate your man with some good oral sex, actually – it’s a perfect motivation tool. I know it since many women get me to the edge with it, especially if I know they give amazing oral. Since they know it’s my weakness. A good game to play is betting, whenever you bet about something or ask him for a favour – mention the blow job. You don’t even have to mention it, just give him “the” look and he’ll know what’s in store for him. Spicing it up #4 Change the location from time to time. It might get boring if the only place he gets head is in your bedroom. The car, the cinema, in public or even in front of other people (if you dare) might be exciting for both of you. There are many blowjob locations. Mix it up and spice it up from time to time. Spicing it up #5 Talk dirty to him. If you don’t know how to talk dirty, experiment with simple things until you get confident enough – and relaxed, to tell him more complicated things. It’s all about capturing his senses. Remember, suck with passion, Your blow job instructor, Jack
There are literally hundreds of different positions you can take up when giving your man head – so which one will you pick? And should it be only one – from start to finish – or more? It all depends, and there is only one right answer to these questions. Experiment. That’s why keeping eye contact while giving your man oral sex is very important – not only because of the connection, and the sexuality of the whole thing – but also because of feedback. You need to see how he is reacting to what you are doing, and then adjust your technique. It’s all about the feelings. Back to oral sex positions – before you pick one, you have to know a number of very important things. 1) Men are visual. Which basically means, the sexier you look, the better. Unfortunately, some positions don’t really make you look seductive, or are just in a position where men feel less power while receiving oral (and it is a “power thing” in a certain way). For example, if you have a nice butt – then don’t hide it. Get into a positions where it can also be seen while you are giving head. All in all, focus on the visual appeal as well. 2) Have your goal in mind. Oral sex positions mainly depend on what’s your goal at that particular moment. For example, sometimes you want to deep throat – there are positions in which you can deep throat more easily, of course, most of the time, if you have problems with deep throating, you’ll probably have to change positions. Sometimes you’ll be in a car, of course, you need a different position there. Once some occasions you just want to give him a “quicky” – so why not get into a position in which it’s easiest for him to orgasm faster? On the other hand – you may have all the time in the world – and you might really want to satisfy him slowly, so he can fully enjoy every second of it – so in case you know it will take LONGER for him to orgasm – you’ll probably want to be in a position that is more comfortable and takes less effort for both of you. See how complicated it can get sometimes?
At least you are trying to improve. Respect for that, I adore women like that. 3) Comfort is key. Well yeah, sometimes you can be in a pretty uncomfortable position (that might look hot), but if it’s not comfortable, sooner or later it will mess up your focus – it will mess up your right attitude – and then it may drastically lover your mood and the quality of the blow job itself. Why risk it? Focus on just getting into a position that a) looks good b) feels good c) and isn’t too hard to be in. Remember your goals at the moment – and just go for it. As I’ve said, there are hundreds of positions, experiment, figure out the best ones, and have fun
, Jack
Do you want a guy that will fall head over heals for you? Do you want a guy that will appreciate you more and respect you for all the pleasure you give him? Do you want a guy who will do anything for you? Do you want a guy who won’t cheat on you and brake your heart into tiny little pieces? If the answer to any of the above question is yes, then keep on reading. There’s only one thing you need to get all the stuff from above – oral sex skills. If you’re great at giving your man oral sex, he’ll love you and adore you more than you can even imagine. I’ll give you 3 simple secret tips/techniques that will get you better at the fine art of fellatio. Secret Technique 1 – While giving him head and maintaining eye contact – smile, suck on it a few times, then come up and give him a little smile, do it slowly, passionately. A smile is incredibly powerful during a blow job and it conveys so many good things about you. Secret Technique 2 – Say the magic words – believe it or not, a big part of oral sex is not just sucking – it’s talking. If you can use words and the tone of your voice in a nice, seductive, erotic way – you can make wonders. There are plenty of “magic words” – but just try this one out and see for yourself. As you’re giving him head – slowly, look up, smile, then say “I love sucking your cXck” Secret Technique 3 – This is very powerful. While giving him head, slowly tickle his balls on the back side, near his anus – this will be a very interesting feeling for him and he’ll love it. Just slowly massage his balls – don’t neglect them like 90% of women do, it’s a big plus if you know how to take care of the balls. If you want more info, you can learn how to give head on my website. Jack
Okay, over time, you’ll see the amazing benefits great oral sex can have on your relationship. For now – focus on getting good at the basics. It all comes down to the fundamentals – once you master that, move on to more advanced things and become the best he ever had or will have. Oral Sex Fundamentals (1) – Relax. It’s not the end of the world if you mess up. At least you’re trying. As long as you’re trying, you’re on a good track. You’ll get better over time and practice – just like with everything else in life. Everyone fails from time to time, so stop expecting that every blow job will be perfect and that he’ll orgasm every single time. He won’t. Except if you have advanced skills. Oral Sex Fundamentals (2) Maintain eye contact from time to time and try to create a deeper connection with him. It’s all about the mind and triggering his emotions and senses. You need to undestand that you’re not only giving him head with your mouth – but your whole body. Oral Sex Fundamentals (3) Change your attitude. The most important part of oral sex, believe it or not. It’s not the “secret technique” – it’s the “right” attitude that many have a problem explaining. Oral Sex Fundamentals (4) Be more aggressive, stroke harder, suck harder, talk dirtier. Whatever you are doing so far – double it. And you’ll see instant results. Are you enjoying giving head? Double that enthusiasm. Oral Sex Fundamentals (5) Get out of your head. Thinking stuff like “oh am I good?” “is he enjoying it?” “What if I scratch him?” or “why didn’t he orgasm yet?” are all stuff that work against you. You don’t need to be in your head when giving head. Be there – in the moment. Your blow job instructor, Jack
It’s not that hard to learn how to give your man great oral sex, as long as you’re willing to invest a little time into learning and practicing, you’ll have porn star level oral sex skills in no time. First you need to motivate yourself. Why do you want to learn this? I’ll give you 3 reasons. One – A better sex life is crucial for a good relationship or marriage. Oral sex is a big part of sex and can greatly enhance your pleasure. Not just his, but yours as well – if you are capable of realizing that he’s not the only one that will get pleasure out of it. Two – You’ll have a happier, more satisfied and relaxed man in the house, that’s a lot more willing to help around with housework, kids and anything else you wish. Three – Besides him probably being happy to go down on you in return, you’ll not only get more attention and love from him – but probably new presents whenever you wish
, that’s also a pretty possible benefit. Oh yeah, and you won’t have to worry about him leaving you for another woman. Now the tips. . . I’ll give you the 2 most basic tips. The fundamentals of quality oral sex. The problem is that most women forget this and want to move on to more complicated things (which is natural), but don’t forget. Without the right fundamentals, your building will collapse. Focus on the basics, then keep on moving. Basic Oral Sex Tip #1 Enjoy giving him oral as much as he’s enjoying receiving it. Or more. Focus on being there, in the moment, and truly enjoying every second of being there. This is essential, and I can not stress that enough here. Basic Oral Sex Tip #2 Swallow. It’s not polite to spit. Or at least let him orgasm in your mouth. I’ll teach you how to get over swallowing later, but let me tell you that this is over 50% of your success. Once you get the right attitude, it will all be a lot easier, especially if you have problems swallowing now.