There are two great reasons why cunnilingus is better than sex. First you have no pressure to last very long and second she will have the orgasm of her life and feel obliged to repay you with oral pleasure. These oral sex tips for men will help you to give her amazing cunnilingus. 1. The one thing that is an absolute necessity in any area of sex is foreplay. If you neglect this you are flogging a dead horse. Foreplay does more than turn your woman on and get her sexually excited, it also shows her that you think a lot of her. The mere fact that you want to touch her body and kiss her instead of just heading for her vagina or breasts shows her what a considerate lover you are. Of all the oral sex tips for men this one is the most important. 2. After the foreplay she will have connected with you on an emotional level which means that she will trust you to go down on her. Don’t abuse this trust when you lick her vagina but lick it as though your life depended on being gentle with your tongue. She will get so turned on because of this and will soon start to wriggle her hips about which is her bodies way of saying “speed up”. Don’t go from slow to fast licking in one move but build it up slowly until she starts moving and pushing up to your mouth. Now you can either carry on licking her vagina until she reaches orgasm or lick her clitoris to give her an even better on. Be careful though if you choose the clitoris because after all your hard work you can spoil it all if you lick this to firmly.

Even a quick suck of a guys penis will make him happy but you might want to give him more than that. You might want to rid yourself of any insecurity about his former lovers being better than you. If that’s the case then you need some oral sex tips that will drive him crazy. It only takes a couple of tiny extras to be added to fellatio in order to make you the finest lover he has ever been with. Here are two ways to give him the best blow job. 1. Make the build up to fellatio a tense and teasing event. Don’t just get him in your mouth and start sucking, tease him first. Try kissing every where apart from his penis and he will be willing you to suck it. The more you tease the more he will want it and when you finally give him a blow job it will be his best ever. 2. The next oral sex tip that will drive him crazy is to realise that there is much more to fellatio than just sucking penis. To make it live on in his mind you need to use everything possible. How about putting his penis between your breasts and letting gently thrust, then with each upwards thrust you take a little suck. Or use your tongue to lick his penis like you would a lollipop. Hands are also vital because they can pleasure him while you take a rest (constant sucking hurts). Those oral sex tips will drive him crazy and make any blow job the best ever. Use your imagination though and surprise him with something different every time that you go down on him.

From lot’s of experience I know that many women struggle with oral sex. A lot of them live under the impression that they are “great” – while in reality, they’re almost clueless. The reason they’re not completely clueless – is that they “believe” they are good – and that tiny portion of self-confidence can sometimes make a big difference. This article is for the brave women out there that are strong enough to admit that they might need some tips – from a guy’s perspective and the experience of receiving literally thousands of blow jobs. Tip #1 – Change the Way you Think Countless women are searching the internet for “techniques” and “tricks” – let me just tell you that you don’t really need that. You can learn every single “special technique” out there – and all of it will be worthless if you don’t have the right attitude. Oral sex is about connecting with your man on a deeper level and being in complete control of his potential pleasure or pain (and in these moment – You have the power to deliver either ultimate pain or pleasure). As I’ve said – most advice on oral sex out there is focusing on “techniques” instead of going to the core of the problem and the reason why most women don’t know how to truly pleasure a man. I advise you to change the way you view giving a man oral sex – stop looking at it as a “chore” or something that you’re just doing to make him happy. It should be fun – not work. Once you start enjoying it – or at least faking enjoyement in the beginning (until you get good and naturally start enjoying it more) – he will enjoy it A LOT more himself. Yes, sometimes it’s that simple. Emotions tend to jump from one person to another – so if you have a bored, “why didn’t he orgasm yet?” and “am I doing it right?” look on your face – it probably won’t be that attractive. And men are first and foremost visual – we get turned on when we see that YOU enjoy it – even more than we do. That’s why you should never forget that oral sex is more mental than physical – and that is why “techniques” are far less important than having a great attitude. Tip #2 – Convey Your New Attitude Once you’ve decided to try out my advice and focus on changing your attiude – the next thing you may be concerned with is “How can I show him that I enjoy it?”. There are many ways, as long as you are creative and not afraid to experiment a bit – you’ll be great. Different guys might prefer different things – that’s why you need to “crash and burn” with your current guy a few times until you figure out what he enjoy the most. Anyway – back to conveying the “right” attitude. Start of by smiling – there’s nothing easier than that – and you can convey so much with a nice smile, or a laugh. Give him a naughty, seductive look with a smile – as if you can’t wait to start – because “you love to give him oral”. You need to capture all of his senses – so use the tone of your voice the right way, talk in a seductive, turned-on tone – your vibe will pass on to him and once he sees that you really want to give him head and that it’s not just a “chore” he’ll already enjoy it more, even if you didn’t start yet! Talk dirty to him, tell him that you love it, keep eye contact from time to time – and never forget “you love it” and it’s not “work”. Keep out these “work” thoughts out of your head. The moment you start thinking is when everything usually goes downhill – get out of your head and tune into your senses. You need to be passionate and sensual about it. And the easiest way to control his emotions is by controlling your own feelings first. Tip #3 – Relax and Have Fun I’ve received hundreds of emails from women asking me how to solve their “oral sex problems” – most of them have something in common. Even after receiving lot’s of information and even though they already know what they need to do to give truly amazing oral – they are still worried about completely unimportant things. That’s because they can’t stop thinking and complicating things for no real reason – stick to the basics (a good attitude) and go on from there. It’s normal that not every time will be perfect – it’s normal that he sometimes just can’t orgasm (but you can work on that). It is not the end of the world if you fail – and you will fail until you get good at it – so be prepared for messing up a few times here and there, but over time and practice – any woman can get great at giving oral to men. I’ve seen it dozens of times. Just don’t view it as work – it should be fun, look for feedback from your guy – as long as you’re trying to improve, I’m 100% sure he won’t mind you trying over and over again Some of you may say “but why would I even bother mastering oral sex?” This may seem to be a not that important thing for many people out there – but that’s because they haven’t yet realized the power of great oral – and the way it can literally save relationships. Yes, men are that “simple” sometimes. Most couples break up because their sex life is going down hill (or is already dead) – well, what better way to spice it up than amazing “oral pleasure”? Good luck, Jack

Believe it or not – oral sex can save your marriage/relationship. Probably 98% of guys out there love getting oral, (if it’s good that is), unfortunately – most of them are not getting it, some are getting none at all (probably for all the right reasons) – other are getting it but it’s low quality. Women don’t have where to go for real advice on oral sex that actually works. But I’ll tell you the basics of making your man truly happy by giving him great oral. First of all, you have to change your attitude when it comes to giving oral. Every potential negative thought you might have – forget it. Stop thinking about the negatives and focus on the positive. There are more than enough benefits your relationship can have from great oral – maybe you just don’t know it yet. You should become your mans fantasy, or he might find it somewhere else – and I’m pretty sure you don’t want that happening. Anyway – here are the basics. And you can get advanced tips later. Oral Sex Basics – 1 Take charge. You are in a leading position here. His potential pleasure or ultimate pain (yep, you could just go crazy and bite it off) depends completely on you. So what you do is what you get – or what you don’t get in case you don’t give head properly. Anyway, take charge, be proactive. Look for feedback and adjust your technique. That’s part of the reason why eye contact is important, so you can see his reactions. Oral Sex Basics – 2 Give him oral with your whole body – not just your mouth. You have to use everything you’ve got. . . combine and mix up stroking, sucking, licking, ticklink, dirty talking. You should combine all that. As I’ve said – Use your entire body. Oral Sex Basics – 3 Be more seductive and naughty. Don’t be afraid to unleash you sexuality, enjoy it as much as he does, act naughty and get him turned on. You are submitting to him when giving him head – and even though you may think that he will look “low” at you after that or disrespect you – it will be totally the opposite. See for yourself. Suck with passion, Your blow job instructor, Jack

If you truly want to please a man in bed then fellatio is the way to go. A man holds oral sex so dearly that he would risk everything to get it. To keep him faithful and make sure he doesn’t need to look elsewhere for it here three oral sex tips for women. Tips for giving a good blow job. 1. He will be happy if you just suck his penis but to make him even happier try making sure that he can see your body while you are sucking him. The best position for this is to have him kneeling while you get into the “doggie” position in front of him. You on all fours showing off your curves will add a lot to the fellatio experience. 2. Giving a good blow job can be as easy as using your eyes, this tip is that simple. I don’t know why it drives men so wild when you look at them while you suck but it does. Maybe they think that you are looking at them to make sure you are pleasing them or that you are looking for their approval. Whatever the reason a little look at him can make any blow job twice as good. 3. Another great tip for giving a good blow job is to put yourself in his shoes. Just imagine that he was giving you oral and build up to the sucking the same way that you like him to build up to the licking. Guys like it when you go straight down on them but they absolutely love it if you tease and torment them first. Put those tips for giving a good blow job to use and put a smile on his face that will last all week.