There is always a way you can be more exciting to your boyfriend. Even if you have been together for a long time, there is no reason he shouldn’t still be attracted to you – even more than he was the first day you met. Usually, people lose interest in each other after some time, since they get used to being together all the time. Don’t let that happen to you. Use the 5 real life tips I’ll give you so that you can stay exciting for your boyfriend for a lifetime. I won’t lie to you and give you false tips and try to be nice to you. That wouldn’t help. You may not like me after reading this article. Some of the ideas I’ll lay down for you may sound “shallow”, and they probably are – but they produce results. And that is the only important thing. The truth may be hard to swallow – but it will set you free. 1. Always work on your looks. Guys are visual creatures. If you look good, there’s a big chance we’ll want to have you around for as long as possible. The thing is that, even good looks can get a bit “normal” after some time. That’s why you should always keep improving your looks. It’s not about make up, don’t stress about that. What I’m talking about here is that you work out on a regular basis and keep your body “tight. ” There is nothing more exciting than when you are fit, sexy and flexible in bed. Make this a lifestyle decision, as it will always make your sex life better just as every other segment of your life as well. You’ll be 10 times more exciting to your boyfriend if you take care of yourself than if you just watch TV all day and eat oily junk food. Don’t do it just for him, do it for yourself. Next, I shouldn’t even have to mention this. But some of you girls just aren’t as “feminine” as your boyfriend would like you to be. Being “one of the dudes” just isn’t exciting. Feminine women take care of themselves. They smell good, have nice, fresh skin, dress sexily and stay in shape. Make this a top priority and you’ll always stay exciting for your boyfriend. 2. Treat him like a King in bed. Basically, if you treat your boyfriend like a King in bed, he’ll always be excited by you. You have to make it a top priority that you are able to please him better than any other woman out there. You have to master the art of pleasing him in bed. Figure out what he likes and how to do it the way he likes it. From the top of my head I’ll just tell you a couple of things a lot of women aren’t doing correctly, but should. First – you have to learn how to talk dirty to him and tell him the kinkiest stuff ever. Believe in what you say and then whatever you mumble out will be exciting. Second – you have to get more sexually liberated. Don’t be shy or think that he’ll look down on you if you go wild in bed. Exactly the opposite will happen. What men want is that you behave as much as a Porn Star as possible in bed. That’s what excites us. Why? Because, in Porn, men see a key component that some women just forget about: desire. Every man wants to be desired and treated like a King – which roughly means that you are ready to do anything, and I mean absolutely anything for him in bed. Total submission is hot and exciting for most, if not all, men. If you let him do whatever he wants with you in bed, he’ll always be excited around you and literally through himself at you. And last, but definitely not least: Learn how to give mind blowing blow jobs. That’s a skill every woman should have. There’s probably nothing that will make you more exciting for him than if you are able to give him the best oral sex of his life. This is the kind of stuff that can get a guy to fall deeply in love. No joke. 3. Play games. Yes – another way to be more exciting to your boyfriend is by just having more fun in bed by playing games. You don’t have to take things too seriously, just mess around. There’s an unlimited amount of sex games that you can play to make sex more exciting for both you and him. Role playing is one of them. With role playing you can literally make all his fantasies a near-reality. Of course, it’s always better if he role plays his fantasies with you, then if he goes and tries doing it with somebody else. So find out what you both like and have fun – be open minded with it and you’ll both get more pleasure out of it. By the way, in the beginning of the article I’ve mentioned that the truth may be hard to swallow – but it will set you free. “Swallowing” the “truth” will also make you a thousand times more exciting to your boyfriend;) I hope you got the metaphor:)

Perhaps you’ve been faced with this situation before: You’re in your doctor’s office for a routine general checkup, and he asks you if there are any medical concerns that you’d like to discuss. You nod, take a deep breath, and then muster up the courage to bring up the topic of getting tested for STDs. Your doctor then wants to know why you’re asking about STD testing. Are you experiencing any symptoms? Did you engage in unprotected sex with a person you believe to be infected with some disease or another? If your answer to either of these questions is “yes,” then your doctor is more than likely to suggest an STD test. However, what happens if you’re faced with this scenario but aren’t experiencing STD symptoms? Or what if you are unwilling to give certain facts and details of your sex life, because this is the same doctor that you’ve had since you were twelve years old? What if the reason for your question is a recent transgression that you haven’t disclosed to anyone? What if there’s no basis for your STD testing request other than a general desire to protect yourself and make sure that you’re not carrying any diseases that you don’t know about? In certain cases where a patient has no “good reason” to request STD testing other than fulfilling the basic notion of being sexually responsible, a doctor might resist the request, and for good reason. Doctors are required to provide pre- and post-test counseling, and any good doctor is going to understand the importance of fulfilling this obligation, especially given the sensitive nature of the matter of STDs and STD testing. However, the reality is that this conversation all too often simply doesn’t happen between many doctors and their sexually-active patients, for a wide range of reasons. Some doctors might not have the time to offer patients the appropriate counseling that should go hand in hand with STD testing. Of course, there are also some people whose relationships with their doctors are such that they don’t feel comfortable bringing up the topic of STDs at all. Others, by contrast, might feel perfectly at ease around their doctors, but might not have such regular access to them. While most women with health insurance are granted at least one “well visit” a year for gynecological exams on top of allowances for general checkups, most men tend to find themselves with fewer options for STD testing based on doctor-patient contact. Additionally, there are some people who require STD testing on a multiple times per year basis but cannot easily get in to see their doctors that many times a year, either due to scheduling difficulties or the expense involved in paying out-of-pocket costs for office visits that go beyond insurance company standard allowances. What does all of this mean? While there is certainly something sacred about the doctor-patient relationship, the reality is that many people need an outlet for STD testing that complements the (usually annual) doctor’s office visit. For this reason, companies such as getSTDtested. com offer an essential service; the ability for customers to accompany those often sporadic doctor visits with STD testing on as frequent a basis as needed. According to CEO and founder Tracey Powell, getSTDtested. com cannot, by any means, take the place of a doctor-patient relationship. However, what it can do is offer customers an opportunity to get tested for STDs as often as they’d like, and in an extremely easy and convenient fashion. And since the results of any test facilitated by getSTDtested. com are as accurate as any results that a doctor would present, customers have little to lose when directing their own healthcare needs. Whether the idea of asking your doctor for an STD test seems mildly uncomfortable or frustratingly futile, remember that you do have an additional option for learning the truth about your health and sexual health status. Instead of avoiding the issue, go online, order your STD tests, and get the power of knowledge that you deserve to have.

Adults in a relationship often desire to experience pleasure with their partners and Durex has been very responsive to this need for many years now. Being one of the world’s leading condom brand, Durex makes sure to come up with more innovative products not only to heighten the pleasure of adult consumers but to protect them as well from sexually transmitted diseases and unexpected pregnancies. Some one billion Durex condoms are manufactured around the world each year. Durex was founded in 1915 in London and is part of the SSL International Company. Durex condoms are already available in different sizes, textures and flavors. In terms of material, there are now the latex and non-latex for sensitive people. The non-latex condoms are made from a material known as polyurethane that won’t cause allergy but is still soft to the touch to allow for greater sensitivity. Of late, the manufacturer of Durex came up with a new innovation beyond the usual condoms. This time, it focused on another aspect of achieving pleasure for adult users which is through vibrations. Called Play, the new line of Durex products aims to encourage adult consumers to do a little experimentation with the way they seek pleasure from each other. It comes in four major types – the Vibrations, Ultra, Touch and Pure Fantasy. The Vibrations features a ring that vibrates for 20 minutes. It comes with a tiny switch that can be turned on and off without much fuss. This is ideal for first time users. The Ultra provides longer vibrations of up to 40 minutes. Users need not worry about noise as this product does not create a sound when in use. Also, it is waterproof and can be used with the condom on or even without the rubber. It is best used with a lubricant to experience a high level of pleasure. The Play Touch is worn on the finger. This enables both men and women to provide their partners with stimulating touches to arouse their sexual desires. No sound is emitted when in use. The product is also not affected when it gets wet and it can even be used again as long as you see the need for it. The Pure Fantasy product is a vibrator that can be used in different speed levels. It’s considered to be a personal massager with no noise vibrations that can easily be adjusted according to the mood you want. Also available is the Durex Play line is 2 in 1 gel. This gel can serve as a lubricant as well when necessary and can be used all over the body. It can be used by people with sensitive skin because of the presence of aloe vera which is a proven skin moisturizer. Other Play products adult consumers will enjoy are the Feel (water-based lubricant), Massage Melts (frozen gel), Heat, Mousse, Tingle, O, Sensations, Pina Colada, Aloe Vera and Very Cherry. All these are meant to heighten sexual pleasure but also ensure that the skin is protected and nourished. With every use, partners are assured of fun and excitement they may not have experienced before.

First Time Sex Tips There’s an old saying that there’s more satisfaction in anticipating something than actually getting it. That’s true to a certain extent with sex, too. Everyone remembers their first time — some with fondness, others with embarrassment, a few with disgust. The biggest mistake made by virgins is rushing into intercourse without actually feeling ready for it. It’s important to engage in long foreplay before intercourse. Think of foreplay as an extended massage, but every part of his or her body is fair territory. Leave your new lover as putty in your hands by using your fingers, lips and tongue to caress every nook and cranny. You’ll know the time has come for your first time sex when neither of you can stand one more second without the other. Oral Sex TipsOral sex is often the way two young lovers maintain their virginity. After they begin having sex, however, oral sex sometimes becomes secondary. That’s a pity because it adds spice to love life, regardless of your age. Think of the penis as an ice cream cone on a hot day; you need to attend to it vigorously to maintain control, but you don’t want to forget that it’s also for your enjoyment, not just his. If you’re on the receiving end of oral sex, it’s important that you let your partner know what you need: faster, slower, harder, softer and any other variation. For vaginal oral sex, remember that a little pressure goes a long way with the clitoris. There’s a thin line between a pleasurable stroke of the tongue and a grating rub. Anal Sex Tips Variety is the spice of life, and when it comes to lovemaking, anal sex is the cayenne pepper: it’s not for everyone, but it does add some pizzazz. The anus is filled with nerve endings that respond to stimulation, much the same way the vagina and penis do. In addition, the sphincter can react to a penis in ways the vagina never could. A couple caveats to keep in mind: always use a condom for anal sex, and the penis should be washed thoroughly before being inserted into the vagina after anal sex to prevent infections. Kinky Sex Tips There are no boundaries for kink, and that’s why it’s one way to keep your sex life alive no matter how many times you’ve been with your partner. Start simple: choose one part of your partner’s body that isn’t normally associated with sex. Then imagine that it is the most desirable part of your partner’s body, that it’s the sexiest part of any body you’ve ever seen. Tell your partner how you feel about that ear, how you crave it and dream of it. After you’ve moved through all the body parts, try role-playing. Same lover, different personality. If you’re a soft-spoken, thoughtful man, become a loudmouthed lout who takes what he wants during a lovemaking session.